Where should I start? We kept messaging each other and on Thursday, I had become a little restless. Knowing he was back in town, I invited Jonathan over to dinner.
Which was all very nice, the food was good and the atmosphere cosy, we talked and talked...and eventually I kissed him, because I needed a snog badly. And it wasn‘t a bad snog at all. Jonathan even pointed out what a great kisser I am, something I‘ve often been told but actually, it takes two so obviously he wasn‘t too bad at it himself.
In fact, we were so good at it that we didn‘t stop until noon the next day, as we both had Good Friday off work. And he only had to hurry home because of his dog, otherwise he would have been up for round four. But he had to go, thanked me for a ‘wonderful night’ and gave me a long, sensual goodbye kiss, saying ‘I‘ll call you tonight’.
My phone was not busy, silent or out of battery on Friday night, yet there was no phone call. Eventually, around 11pm, he texted asking how I was doing? I truthfully replied, ‘Tired’ so the second message was simply ‘Good night!’
I thought it was a little strange but since we had already agreed that this could never become anything serious, I didn‘t get too bothered about it.
But then, I didn‘t hear from him at all.
Jonathan works in IT so he‘s always online, either on his computer or his phone, plus he‘d sent me e-mails or text messages a few times a day since we started chatting. Now there was nothing. And no belated phone call.
Again, strange but didn‘t ruin my day, or weekend. I went out with friends last night, had a lie in this morning and then went over to my sister‘s for a big Easter brunch. No messages from Jonathan, not even to say ‘Happy Easter!’
This evening, I finally caught him online. Without further adoo, I asked him whether it was his habit to stop entirely talking to a girl after having slept with her. ‘No, no, it‘s nothing like that. I just don‘t know how to act, you‘re the first woman I‘ve been with since the divorce.’
WHAAAAT??? He had assured me otherwise when I asked him in the beginning, remember? I didn‘t know what to say so he kept going: ‘Also, I‘m not ready for a relationship but in any case, I don‘t think online chatting is the best platform to discuss this.’
I was absolutely flabbergasted. I couldn‘t even begin explaining to him how he had exposed himself as a liar.
So I just reminded him that I wasn’t expecting a relationship out of this, that it had been clear from the beginning that we were just having some fun together, but I’d found it strange not having heard from him since he left my apartment.
Then I signed out. If he wants to talk to me again he’ll have to contact me first.
But I wonder, did he think I was that bad in bed?
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